Hari ini hari Minggu, 19 December 2010….. Hujan turun derasssss banget… Once people say “The sky is crying… look at the tears roll down the street”…. huaaaa….. *mellow mode on….

Abis nonton 1 film Korea bagus, judulnya “A Moment to Remember”… Ceritanya berkisah tentang seorang cewe “Su-Jin” yang menikah ama seorang cowo “Chul Soo”, awalnya “Chul Soo” adalah seorang carpenter yang bekerja untuk ayah “Su-Jin”, mereka bertemu secara tidak sengaja di sebuah toko, cerita berlanjut dan akhirnya mereka menikah ^ ^, kehidupan yang dijalani awalnya bener2 bikin aaaaaa….. there is soo much love in them *ngiri T_T* tapi tak berapa lama kemudian, “Su-Jin” mulai sering lupa jalan pulang and lupa hal2 yang udah dia lakukan…. ternyata dia mengidap “Alzheimer”… hiks *mulai nangis bombay nya dari sini* diceritain gimana mereka berjuang ngadepin penyakit ini… dari bikin notes yang ditempel di rumah mereka, berusaha tulis semua memory yang mereka punya….. Ada satu scene yang bener2 bikin T_T hiksssssss… waktu “Chul Soo” mo pergi ke kantor, si “Su-Jin” bilang ke “Chul Soo” right trough his eyes …..”Young-Min…..I love you” *Young-Min itu mantan pacar Su-Jin dulu* hiksssssssss……. pasti sedih banget…. tapi dibales ama “Chul Soo” “Me too” T_T…. hiks karena recent memory yang hilang duluan… jadi memory Su-Jin ke Chul-Soo ilang duluan….. Hiks bener2 deh ini film T_T bikin nangis bombay….

Tapi karena film ini vina jadi bersyukur….. vina punya banyakkk memory… sedih seneng, sakit happy… semuanya vina masih inget…. Vina nyesel, dulu waktu vina sedih2… vina pernah mikir buat erase memory…. lupain semua memory vina, biar vina ga sakit….. T_T tapi itu semua bodoh….. All my memories is my treasure… even when it hurts so much… it’s still my treasure… I want to live my life remembering all my memories… Buat semua yang pernah mikir kek vina… mo erase memory.. please dont… your memory is your treasure… keep it save and warm in your heart… and live with a smile ^ ^

Happy Sunday!!…. Kuta-Bali – The sky is crying so bad….

Hari ini banyak yang baek yang terjadi ama vina…. Pingin tulis2 biar ga lupa, hehe

Pertama, malem kemarin vina bobo jam 11:30, pingin tungguin sampe jam 1 am WITA, which is 12 am WIB biar bisa kasih selamat ultah ke nyo2 yang hari ini ultah… tapi vina udah ngantuk, jadi ya udah vina bobo aja deh, besok bangun pagi kasih selamat nyo2 nya…. entah kenapa abis vina bobo beberapa saaat tuh kebangun ga tau kenapa….. liat hp, eh pas jam 1:00 WITA >.< kok pas yahhhh…. trs telp nyo2 deh hehehe… HAPPY B’DAY my Dearest Brother ^ ^ wish u all the best….

Kedua, vina hari ini seperti biasa down lagi ~____~ tapi untung ada seorang temen yang ingetin…. “vinaaaa… hayo be positif!!” dan beberapa tamparan2 kecil, haha biar vina sadar…. dan iya abis itu vina juga jadi sadar beberapa hal yang perlu vina perbaikin, dan bikin lega juga karena vina jadi tau…. o iya vina sekarang harus jadi lebih positif… lakuin hal2 yang positif, jadi orang yang lebih baek… bukannya malah berpikiran negatif >.< *ga ada gunanya mikir negatif, malah bikin hidup jadi ga happy…. semangat!! *Thanks E!! hugs…

Ketiga, ini yang bikin vina paling senenggg banget hari ini ^ ^. Ceritanya dimulai dari beberapa minggu yang lalu yah…. Jadi beberapa minggu yang lalu vina bahas tentang X’Mas ama seseorang… vina bilang “iya yah, Natal itu kan Tuhan yang ultah….. tapi kok kita selalu yang minta kado yah, harusnya tuh kebalik…. kita yang harusnya kasih kado…. tapi mo kasih kado apa yah?”, trs seseorang itu jawab “kasih kado lagu aja vin, nyanyi… vina kan suka nyanyi… nyanyiin aja buat Tuhan”…. vina baru kepikiran “o iya yahhhh…. let’s sing for X’Mas, tapi lagu apa yah?” trs kepikiran 2 lagu deh “O Holy Night” ama “The First Noel”…. Jadi semangat deh, sampe bela2in Latihan klo malem xixixixixi *kasihan tetangga vina… (*thanks W for the great idea ^ ^)

Nah trs……hari ini ada BICC X’mas party di Lollipop school di Kerobokan, vina pergi berempat ama temen2 vina dari Kuta. Partynya seru hihihihi, ngga nyangka orang BICC ternyata banyakkk yahhh ^^…. Pas udah mo pulang itu, ada pembagian Door Prize…. Pas mo bagi hadiah yang pertama…. Eh nama Vina yang dipanggil ^ ^, kaget sekaligus seneng… wahhh vina dapet X’Mas present lebih awal!! (*benernya udah banyak hadiah yang Tuhan kasih buat vina tiap hari December ini)…. trs vina disuruh nyanyi >.<…. akhirnya vina nyanyi deh “O Holy Night” sambil goyang2 di depan kek anak kecil *wadoh kalo diinget kok malu yah >.< ….. tapi,akhirnya vina nyanyiin lagu itu juga… lagu yang dari 2 minggu lalu vina udah rencanain buat kado Natal buat Tuhan…. Tapi ternyata ga cuma vina kasih kado ke Tuhan, tapi vina dapet kado juga…YAY!! senengnya jadi double… hehehe… Thanks G udah nemenin vina!! ^ ^

Jadi, ayo semua….. X’Mas is coming, siapin hati… siapin diri… hadiah2 Natal udah mulai berdatangan juga ^ ^ !! Try to give a present to God… You will be surprised when you see what you’ve got from Him, just like me…

So, let’s play the X’Mas Jingle in our Heart ^ ^…… Good Night everyone….

Hao jiu bu jian all!! >.< kangen nge-blog… hehehe

hmmm 2 tahun ini aku ngapain aja yah… udah banyakkkkkkk yang terjadi dalam hidupku ini (*~___~  mulai lebay nya )

hehehehe akhir2 ini banyak yang terjadi… mulai dari hal2 yang bikin sedih banget kek berasa this is the end of the world (*lebay lagi), sampe kejadian up and down kek sekarang (* kek orang senam aja up and down –> kata seorang temen )…. Tapi aku lumayan seneng ama keadaanku yang sekarang, meskipun sekarang masih up and down, at least ada up nya ^ ^ hehe… ada temen2 yang ngingetin aku kalo aku lagi down (*ditoyor, ditabok, ditonjok…. ), biar bisa up lagi… (*hayo Up Up!!)

“Everything happens for a reason” kalo kata orang… Semua kejadian yang menimpa hidup kita emang pasti ada maksud di balik itu… hehehe ngalamin kehilangan yang sampe bikin ga bisa bobo, ga bisa makan, ga bisa ngapa2in… Sapa yang harusnya disalahin?? GA ADA!! ^ ^ semua diambil aja hikmahnya… biar kita belajar jadi lebih kuat, lebih dewasa lagi, lebih baek lagi… So, jangan disesali yah semua kejadian yang udah lewat or lagi kita alamin, karena dari kejadian itu kita jadi better person (* I wish ^ ^… hehehe)

Ini mumpung lagi Up… jadi bisa tulis2…. mo share motivator apa aja sih yang vinae dapet hehehe… dapet ini banyakan dari temen2… dari inet juga pas iseng2… kalo lagi down, baca ini deh… semoga bisa bantuin yang lagi down2 juga:

1. “You’ll be happier when you start appreciate small things“…. dapet ini dari temen yang mungkin liat vinae sedih2, hehehe karena ini vinae nyadar sih dulu hal2 kecil yang ga pernah kupeduliin, sekarang setelah disadarin jadi bikin seneng lho…. contohnya: liat langit biru, awan kriwil2 kek bulu domba, pohon bambu di seberang jendela kantor… dulu nya ga pernah perhatiin, sekarang setelah perhatiin kok  jadi bagus yah *amaze sendiri. Mungkin kedengeran lebay yah tapi ngeliatin itu semua di jendela kantor jadi kebiasaan buat aku kalo lagi butek/suntuk…

2. “Smile — Life’s too short to be miserable“…. dapet ini dari status temen di FB. Baca status ini tuh kek dapet tamparan kecil hehehehe…. berlarut2 ama kesedihan juga ga baek, hayo2 smile !!

3. “Sedih ama seneng itu sama2 gratis“…. nangis ama ketawa juga sama2 gratis… cemberut ama senyum juga sama2 gratis…. Ditampar pake kata2 ini ama temen tadi di kantor … hehehe dia bilang Hidup itu pilihan, kalo kita bisa milih yang baek ngapain pilih yang buruk… kalo kita bisa mikir positif, ngapain mikir yang negatif?

4. “Smile always “… ini juga diingetin ama temen di kantor, “kalo lagi suntuk and butek ngapain yah enaknya?” *ngomong sendiri di kantor, trs ada yang nyletuk “senyum aja “…. “kalo lagi sedih senyum2…. fake smile doang dong??” kataku (*kek apa aja yah “kataku” chuckle)…. trs dibales ma dia “ya gpp awalnya emang fake smile, tapi ntar lama2 bener2 bisa senyum dari hati kok ” …. huah, diingetin lagi…. bandel emang vinae, harus ditamparin biar nyadar.. hahaha

5. “Laugh so hard that even sorrow smiles at you, Live life so well that even death loves to see you live“…. dapet ini dari inet hari ini, pas baca ini jadinya positif mikirnya…. ayo smile!! hehe

6. Dan masihhh banyakkk lagi kalo ditulis bisa jadi novel…. soalnya vinae sering up and down, jadi suka diingetin hehehehe…. but, dari sedih yang vinae jalanin… vinae jadi belajar banyak hal juga.

Life must Go on, meskipun sedih2 or seneng ya harus dijalanin….. emang kadang berasa berattttt banget, tapi dinikmati aja kali yah…. Mungkin sedih2 yang kita rasain sekarang emang harus kita jalanin, biar kita bisa tumbuh jadi orang yang lebih baek… God is carving us to be a better person, jadi ntar kalo udah saatnya kita dikasih happy, kita tuh udah siap!!

Sekian dulu dari vinae… kalo diterusin bisa jadi novel ntar

Senang bisa balik nulis lagi

Lady : Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?

Man : I can ‘t tell the reason.. but I really like you..

Lady : You can’t even tell me the reason… how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man : I really don’t know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.

Lady roof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend’s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man : Ok..ok!!! Erm…

because you are beautiful,
because your voice is sweet,
because you are caring,
because you are loving,
because you are thoughtful,
because of your smile,
because of your every
movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the answer. Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and became comma. The guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:

Darling,
Because of your sweet voice that I love you…

Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern that I like you..
Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movements that I love you..
Now can you smile? Now can you move? No, therefore I cannot love you…

If love needs a reason, like now,

there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason? NO! Therefore, I still love you…
And love doesn’t need a reason.

“Sometimes the best and the most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, cannot be
touched, but can be felt in the heart.”

Jerry is the manager of a restaurant in America. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would always reply, “If I were any better, I would be twins!”

Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs when he changed jobs so they could follow him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was always there, telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, “I don’t get it! No one can be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?”
Jerry replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two choices today. I can choose to be in a good mood or I can choose to be in a bad mood I always choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I always choose to learn from it. Everytime someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I always choose the positive side of life.”

“But it’s not always that easy,” I protested.

“Yes, it is,” Jerry said “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice.You choose how you react to situations You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. It’s your choice how you live your life.”

Several years later, I heard that Jerry accidentally did something you are never supposed to do in the restaurant business: left the back door of his restaurant open one morning and was robbed by three armed men. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him.
Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the hospital.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released fromthe hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry aboutsix months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Want to see my scars?” I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.
“The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door,” Jerry replied. “Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, Iremembered that I had twochoices: I could choose to live or choose to die. I chose to live.”

“Weren’t you scared?” I asked.

Jerry continued, “The paramedics were great. They kept telling me. I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read ‘He’s a dead man.’ I knew I need to take action.”
“What did you do?” I asked.
“Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry. “She asked if I was allergic to anything.”
‘Yes,’ I replied.
The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets!’ Over their laughter, I told them, ‘I am choosing to live. Please operate on me as if I am alive, not dead’.”
Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day you have the choice to either enjoy your life or to hate it. The only thing that is truly yours that no one can control or take from you is your attitude, so if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.

4 wives

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He’s very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men. He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant’s confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times. Now, the merchant’s 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

The Donkey

One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn’t worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbours to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone’s amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer’s neighbours continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of t he deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred – Forgive.
2. Free your mind from worries – Most never happen.
3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less